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Not Comparing Yourself with Others
“It’s not about winning or losing” and “don’t compare yourself to others” used to feel like comforting words, but I gradually realized these phrases reveal a different perspective on competition.
For example, “I’m better than others because I have good grades” is based on the idea that power is granted by rules (good grades), where those with good grades only care about holding a high position and not being pushed down. However, if the starting point is “studying enriches knowledge,” the focus is not on who has the most knowledge but on exploring the possibilities.
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